Years ago my mother told me how to "get a guy." it was one of those lovely (yet slightly odd) moments that every girl will have shared with her mother at some point or other. I think I was teary eyed over my lack of boyfriend in a teenage romance filled school environment at the time. Anyway. I took her advice, "dont go chasing them, ignore them, they will come to wonder why you arent interested any more and they will come to you" and suprisingly it happened. Now...I have been testing this theory again recently, to no avail. Infact it has worked the complete opposite way, I dont think I have ever been so ignored in my life. I'm beginning to think that Mothers wise words have failed me. Maybe they only work once in a life time, perhaps they have some kind of timescale on them...Well we shall see. Im still waiting, im not chasing...Maybe this is one of those cases where you have to just go for it? jump right in there and make a fool of yourself in order to get noticed. Who knows.
I do wonder why we dont just help each other out, men and women I mean. Why dont we just tell each other how to make each other like one another?? Instead we just dance around until one drunken night or a chance meeting. Why dont we just put it out there???
This is a wonderfully sad and badly punctuated/written blog, but it is mine all the same. It is my diary for the insecure thoughts I have that im not brave enough to tell someone abour face to face. I dont care if its read, i dont care if its not. It just is. That is enough.
Good night xx
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